It’s a broad topic to approach we know, but one we’re not going to shy away from! You see, in the escorting industry you tend to learn a little about men, women, attraction and desire, so we do know what we’re talking about.
Let it be said here and now that women actually want to be approached and spoken to. In much the same way as you do of course!
The first thing you need to know is that women are not the enemy. Many men approach this so called difficult task of talking to women believing that these creatures are something to be conquered and that they will make a mockery out of any attempts to pick them up. If you have these negative thoughts and visions, you need to work on those first.
Obviously if the woman you want to speak to is scowling at you from across the room when you look, don’t approach her. There’s a lot of common sense to this, just because you’ve been seeing high end escorts and they’re always nice to you, it doesn’t mean that all women will be!
What women want, and what our ladies want, is for you to be yourself. If you’re a nice person, ladies will be attracted to you. It makes sense. It’s mostly about confidence, once you’ve made the first move and actually concentrated on being yourself, you’ll be amazed with the results.
Don’t talk about yourself, talk about her. Start with a compliment perhaps. Make sure you actually find her interesting though, don’t just pretend to find her interesting. The majority of intelligent women will know straight away when you’re feeding them a line so it’s really not worth your trouble.
If she’s only interested in what you do and how much money you have, say what you like, because in our opinion she’s not worth your trouble. It’s a relationship that simply won’t work out. At least high end escorts don’t pretend to be anything other than what they are! They charge money to spend time with you, and you choose to pay them. It’s a great business, and a business that’s mutual.