We’ve got some more advice for you gentlemen. We realise that some of you actually read these articles, so it prompts us to give you something useful.
The best way to get good in bed is to tell you what not to do! Most of the time you’ll be absolutely fine and you’ll have nothing to worry about, but there are a few things that women simply don’t like in the bedroom. We have asked some of our ladies to enlighten us on this subject, in order to give you a fighting chance!
Arguably the worst thing you could do in the bedroom is fail to listen. If you’re not prepared to listen to your lover when she tells you what she likes and what she doesn’t, you may as well just give up. She’ll go and find a lover who is more attentive if you’re not careful. If she moans with pleasure then it’s good, if she shouts in pain, then it’s not. It’s really easy guys!
You may have to take your toolbox down there, but you simply have to make her have pleasure first. It’s etiquette guys, and it’s simple enough to understand. Women can go over and over, but when you’re done, you’re done. She will feel disappointed if you’re not going to do it. Again, she’ll find a better lover unless you make this a focal point.
You might be bored down there, and you may well want her to climax more than anything else in the world, but asking her to simply won’t work! You can drag a horse to water, but you can’t make it drink. Have you heard that expression before? Well it’s the same thing. And if you keep asking her you’ll pressure her, and it won’t happen.
Rushing your way through intimacy isn’t something that women enjoy at all. We’re all partial to a “quickie,” but if it’s not a passionate, risky encounter, it’s not the same really. Women are more sensual, and much more sensitive than you can imagine. There is no “play book” for this however, and it could be an article alone. You just need to take your time and remember what we said above: listen to your lover! If she makes the right noises, she likes it. As a general rule of thumb, if she’s enjoying it, keep doing it!