You’d be surprised how many men feel unsure about what to do when they first meet one of our ladies for a dinner date. Questions like “What should I talk about?”, “How formal should I be?”, “Do I treat this like a normal date?” are all completely natural. The reality is that it’s much simpler than most people imagine.
At its core, it really is just a date, so treat it as a normal date. You’re taking a beautiful, charismatic woman out for an evening of conversation, good food, and mutual enjoyment. You’ll have the chance to laugh together, share stories, and get to know a different side of her beyond photos and profiles. This is the traditional way dates work, and a dinner date with an escort is no different in that respect.
Get your mindset right
The most important starting point is your attitude. If you treat it as a normal date, everything else tends to fall into place.
Go into the evening with the mindset that you are:
Meeting a woman you respect and appreciate
Sharing an experience together, not just “filling time”
Creating a relaxed, pleasant atmosphere for both of you
It’s also crucial to maintain that attitude throughout the evening and not let it slip once you feel more comfortable. Some men, after a drink or two, start to focus too heavily on the idea that they’ve paid for her time, and therefore can say or do whatever they like because she’s technically “obliged” to stay.
This is a huge mistake.
Even though it’s a professional arrangement, your companion is still a person with feelings, standards, and boundaries. If you become arrogant, disrespectful, or behave as if she has to tolerate anything, the mood will shift very quickly. You’ll end up disappointed, and you’ll almost certainly damage any chance of a genuine connection or enjoyable chemistry.
In short: being courteous, considerate, and gentlemanly isn’t optional – it’s the foundation of a successful dinner date.
Why dinner dates work so well
A dinner date is one of the best types of bookings you can make with a London agency escort. It has several advantages for both of you:
She gets to dress up: Most ladies love having a reason to put on a beautiful dress, do their hair, and feel glamorous. A dinner setting gives her exactly that opportunity.
A social, relaxed environment: Being in a restaurant provides a natural structure to the evening – drinks, starters, mains, dessert – which helps conversation flow and removes pressure.
Time to build rapport: Unlike very short bookings, dinner dates offer time to genuinely talk, laugh, and relax together, which makes the entire experience more enjoyable and more memorable.
She gets to enjoy herself too: Escorts are human beings; they enjoy good food, interesting conversation, and being treated well. A dinner date lets her have fun, not just “work.”
From our experience, almost every lady we’ve ever worked with genuinely enjoys dinner dates for these exact reasons.
Make an effort to impress her
Think of this like any other conventional date: you’re naturally going to want to impress the woman you’re with.
That doesn’t mean you need to boast or pretend to be someone you’re not. Instead, focus on the simple things that make a strong impression:
Good manners: Be on time, be polite to staff, and treat her with courtesy.
Genuine interest: Ask her about herself – her interests, travels, hobbies, or favourite foods – and really listen to her answers.
Positive attitude: Keep the conversation light and engaging. Avoid turning the entire evening into a complaint session about work, ex-partners, or personal problems.
Confidence without ego: Be comfortable in your own skin, but not arrogant. There’s a difference between being self-assured and being overbearing.
Remember, human nature doesn’t change just because it’s a professional booking. On any normal date, you’d want the woman to like you as much as you like her. The same is true here, so treat it as a normal date. You’re still engaging in a subtle “mating ritual” of sorts: flirting, laughing, getting to know each other, and creating chemistry.
And if that isn’t what you’re trying to create, then you really have to ask yourself: what are you doing there in the first place?
Choosing the right restaurant
We often talk about picking a nice restaurant, and we want to be very clear about what that means.
We emphasise “nice” – not “expensive.” While these can overlap, they are not the same thing.
A good choice of venue is one that:
Offers a pleasant, comfortable atmosphere
Allows your companion to dress up and feel glamorous
Has decent service and a menu you both can enjoy
Makes you feel at ease – somewhere you’re not intimidated or out of your depth
You don’t need a Michelin star or an outrageous bill to have a great evening. A stylish, welcoming restaurant where conversation is easy and the ambiance is relaxed is often far better than the most exclusive place in town where you feel tense the whole time.
The key is to pick somewhere that shows you’ve put a bit of thought into the evening, while still being true to your own taste and comfort level.
Enjoy her company and relax
When all is said and done, the most important thing you can do is relax and enjoy her company.
Don’t overthink every word you say or treat the evening like a performance or an interview. And don’t constantly remind yourself (or her) that this is a paid arrangement.
Instead, allow yourself to be present in the moment. Laugh at her jokes, share a few of your own stories, and let the evening unfold naturally. When you approach it this way, the date feels far more genuine, and the chemistry that develops is usually much better.
If you’ve chosen a suitable restaurant, behaved like a gentleman, and focused on making the experience pleasant for both of you, the rest will follow very naturally.
All in all, keep it simple: treat it as the date it is, show respect and interest, choose a thoughtful venue, and then relax. Do that, and you’ll both have a far more enjoyable and memorable dinner together.
