A sensual massage is a great way to help your partner relax and relieve stress. It’s also a fantastic way for couples to bond and get to know each other’s bodies. The goal of sensual massage is not to reach orgasm but rather to relax, explore and increase intimacy between you and your partner. If you’re new to sensual massage, then follow our tips, and your partner will indeed thank you for it!
• Begin with an essential message. Have your partner lie face down on the bed and straddle them. Use massage oil or a massage bar as lubrication so your hands will effortlessly glide over their skin. Many massage oils contain relaxing essential oils to enhance the experience. Start by running your hands up the back and work out to the sides and the shoulders, applying pressure to increase blood flow and relax the muscles.
• You could then move on to a more creative way of massaging and use your whole body to massage your partner’s body. The different sensations will feel amazing for you both! Incorporate your mouth and tongue, too, and try licking and breathing on your partner to heighten their senses.
• Have your partner lie on their back and then massage their hands, arms and chest before moving on to massaging their erogenous zones such as the breasts, nipples and the area surrounding the genitals.
• Once your partner’s arousal has increased, then you can move on to a gentle genital massage. Caress the area with care and the right level of pressure; you may need to use lubrication so as not to cause too much friction, which could hurt your partner